Zoe Girl
11-18-11, 11:06am
So I started on the this positive thinking program, really good, and the things htat have happened since then, Woah! I really focused on my kids being independant and happy and my goals around earning enough to support us comfortably.
I had a long weekend vacation, my mom rearranged my house while I was gone so Sunday I dismantled the table and put it in th eback yard (and was not so calm), monday my kids all freak with anxiety, teusday i have an awesome conversatin with my supervisor, clear the air, she takes a lot of the fall for something that stepped on my toes, then i start getting staff calls wednesday about each other, by thursday one is refusing to come and work with the others, I have an amazing special needs conference I wa able to sit in on as the after school provider, and then I go to cover for my refuser and his work is crap, my sup is saying he is great and others need to move sites. I just stood up and said no, he is being crappy and others are not perfect but they don't lose children. (okay all more professional than that).
So i have been assertive at work twice this week and the world did not fall apart. Even if I am not 100% correct I am still feeling okay and that is really really new. Now my kids, well one left for mostof the week and i am so much mroe peaceful. I feels like if I am serious about my positive focus on my job and earnings that it affects a lot of things like needing to stand up and speak plus giving my kids their own lives to handle (well tyler is 14 butthe girsl are 18 and 21
I had a long weekend vacation, my mom rearranged my house while I was gone so Sunday I dismantled the table and put it in th eback yard (and was not so calm), monday my kids all freak with anxiety, teusday i have an awesome conversatin with my supervisor, clear the air, she takes a lot of the fall for something that stepped on my toes, then i start getting staff calls wednesday about each other, by thursday one is refusing to come and work with the others, I have an amazing special needs conference I wa able to sit in on as the after school provider, and then I go to cover for my refuser and his work is crap, my sup is saying he is great and others need to move sites. I just stood up and said no, he is being crappy and others are not perfect but they don't lose children. (okay all more professional than that).
So i have been assertive at work twice this week and the world did not fall apart. Even if I am not 100% correct I am still feeling okay and that is really really new. Now my kids, well one left for mostof the week and i am so much mroe peaceful. I feels like if I am serious about my positive focus on my job and earnings that it affects a lot of things like needing to stand up and speak plus giving my kids their own lives to handle (well tyler is 14 butthe girsl are 18 and 21